Yes, it's been two glorious years of being married to my wonderful husband.
We have (like most couples) ups and downs in our relationship but we try our best to work things out.
Ours ain't perfect but i married my bestfriend and that'r a plus for me. We actually never had a formal courtship or dating as boyfriend and girlfriend used to do or use to be doing nowadays. Back then, we just simply hang-out. Ours was not the conventional love story. Well, it started as a deal of wanting to have a baby cause we're both old enough to have one. And it did happened. It was a rocky start. Gallons of tears falled from my eyes as i remembered it. Liters of gasoline was wasted from my husband's end, why? because of going to our house back and fro.
I almost gave up on him but he didn't. He prayed to God for a sign and God gave it to him. That's a relief! I also prayed to God for only one name to be my future husband and He gave it to me. They say that when you pray or want to ask something, you should tell Him what you really want and not going around the bush and tell the ideals or stuff like that. God will be too confused on giving you what you really want.
Our first month was a breeze. Adjustment? none. As what my Mama told me, we were like two couples playing "bahay-bahayan" cause we laugh a lot and kid a lot with each other. We, actually, didn't realized that there is a bigger picture out there for us to focus on. Sure we plan on what we must and need to do but we kept it one step at a time. We didn't pressure ourselves about the situation we put ourselves into. The Baby in my belly and Us was our focus first.
Then, my husband popped out the question of us getting married. But before that, my Mama kept on pressuring me bout it and told her that i won't push him into something that he's not ready. So i waited and glad that he did. We got married and officially become Mr. and Mrs. M. :)
I remembered that day. It was simple yet memorable. We laugh a lot eventhough we're not complete then. Even our baby joins in the celebration. And that's the start for us to really be a husband-and-wife and be the parent for our unborn child.
It was a struggle knowing that we are miles away from each other. Back then, i stayed with my Mama in Gen.San and he has to work in Davao City. Eventhough we missed each other, we sacrificed until our baby was born.
God tested our marriage when after our baby was born, she was admitted to the hospital because of complication and jaundice and that my baby's heart is very weak (a vein outside the heart didn't close up, idk the medical term). We become strong for our baby. We see to it that we are there for each other. And i feel that my husband loves us so much cause he took care of us even if he's tired. But thank God that our baby's a fighter, we got out of the hospital sooner than we had expected. We felt relieved and happy and thankful.
A whole new chapter and experiences opened when we decided that it's time for us three to be together and live in one roof. It was the hardest few months. We adjust like big time. Sleepless nights. Crying. Arguing. Tough times. But slowly we found the rhythm and it was good. It taught us a lot of things from each other.
Time flies and we're on our 2nd year. Minimal adjustment. Argue on small things. We laugh and cuddle a lot. Division of labor to make everything run smoothly. There's still the issue of budgeting our money. I still gave him the freedom to go out and hang-out with his friend ONLY when there's no ladies around. I rarely get jealous but you know... i trust him but not the ladies around him.
I am just thankful that for two years, my husband still gives me the butterflies in my stomach. Thankful that he's been very patient and understanding when i am under-the-weather sometimes. Thankful that he loves me in all my imperfections. Happy that he's always been my #1 supporter, taster and critic in my endeavors. That's why i also love him that much! i may not see it but his actions speaks for himself.
The End
We have (like most couples) ups and downs in our relationship but we try our best to work things out.
Ours ain't perfect but i married my bestfriend and that'r a plus for me. We actually never had a formal courtship or dating as boyfriend and girlfriend used to do or use to be doing nowadays. Back then, we just simply hang-out. Ours was not the conventional love story. Well, it started as a deal of wanting to have a baby cause we're both old enough to have one. And it did happened. It was a rocky start. Gallons of tears falled from my eyes as i remembered it. Liters of gasoline was wasted from my husband's end, why? because of going to our house back and fro.
I almost gave up on him but he didn't. He prayed to God for a sign and God gave it to him. That's a relief! I also prayed to God for only one name to be my future husband and He gave it to me. They say that when you pray or want to ask something, you should tell Him what you really want and not going around the bush and tell the ideals or stuff like that. God will be too confused on giving you what you really want.
Our first month was a breeze. Adjustment? none. As what my Mama told me, we were like two couples playing "bahay-bahayan" cause we laugh a lot and kid a lot with each other. We, actually, didn't realized that there is a bigger picture out there for us to focus on. Sure we plan on what we must and need to do but we kept it one step at a time. We didn't pressure ourselves about the situation we put ourselves into. The Baby in my belly and Us was our focus first.
Then, my husband popped out the question of us getting married. But before that, my Mama kept on pressuring me bout it and told her that i won't push him into something that he's not ready. So i waited and glad that he did. We got married and officially become Mr. and Mrs. M. :)
I remembered that day. It was simple yet memorable. We laugh a lot eventhough we're not complete then. Even our baby joins in the celebration. And that's the start for us to really be a husband-and-wife and be the parent for our unborn child.
It was a struggle knowing that we are miles away from each other. Back then, i stayed with my Mama in Gen.San and he has to work in Davao City. Eventhough we missed each other, we sacrificed until our baby was born.
God tested our marriage when after our baby was born, she was admitted to the hospital because of complication and jaundice and that my baby's heart is very weak (a vein outside the heart didn't close up, idk the medical term). We become strong for our baby. We see to it that we are there for each other. And i feel that my husband loves us so much cause he took care of us even if he's tired. But thank God that our baby's a fighter, we got out of the hospital sooner than we had expected. We felt relieved and happy and thankful.
A whole new chapter and experiences opened when we decided that it's time for us three to be together and live in one roof. It was the hardest few months. We adjust like big time. Sleepless nights. Crying. Arguing. Tough times. But slowly we found the rhythm and it was good. It taught us a lot of things from each other.
Time flies and we're on our 2nd year. Minimal adjustment. Argue on small things. We laugh and cuddle a lot. Division of labor to make everything run smoothly. There's still the issue of budgeting our money. I still gave him the freedom to go out and hang-out with his friend ONLY when there's no ladies around. I rarely get jealous but you know... i trust him but not the ladies around him.
I am just thankful that for two years, my husband still gives me the butterflies in my stomach. Thankful that he's been very patient and understanding when i am under-the-weather sometimes. Thankful that he loves me in all my imperfections. Happy that he's always been my #1 supporter, taster and critic in my endeavors. That's why i also love him that much! i may not see it but his actions speaks for himself.
The End
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